{"id":767,"date":"2021-04-05T17:10:43","date_gmt":"2021-04-05T17:10:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/raceequalityfoundation.org.uk\/parentalconflict\/?page_id=767"},"modified":"2021-07-08T12:53:50","modified_gmt":"2021-07-08T12:53:50","slug":"how-we-communicate","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/raceequalityfoundation.org.uk\/parentalconflict\/how-we-communicate","title":{"rendered":"How we communicate"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-pale-cyan-blue-background-color has-background has-medium-font-size\">Before we understand how co-parents in conflict communicate, we need to appreciate that communication is not just about the words we use.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-default\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"595\" height=\"841\" src=\"https:\/\/raceequalityfoundation.org.uk\/parentalconflict\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/communicate-diagram.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-549\" srcset=\"https:\/\/raceequalityfoundation.org.uk\/parentalconflict\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/communicate-diagram.png 595w, https:\/\/raceequalityfoundation.org.uk\/parentalconflict\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/communicate-diagram-212x300.png 212w, https:\/\/raceequalityfoundation.org.uk\/parentalconflict\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/communicate-diagram-159x225.png 159w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 595px) 100vw, 595px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Types of non-verbal conversation<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-default\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"682\" height=\"592\" src=\"https:\/\/raceequalityfoundation.org.uk\/parentalconflict\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/non-verbal.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-842\" srcset=\"https:\/\/raceequalityfoundation.org.uk\/parentalconflict\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/non-verbal.png 682w, https:\/\/raceequalityfoundation.org.uk\/parentalconflict\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/non-verbal-300x260.png 300w, https:\/\/raceequalityfoundation.org.uk\/parentalconflict\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/non-verbal-259x225.png 259w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 682px) 100vw, 682px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-vivid-cyan-blue-color has-text-color\" style=\"font-size:24px\"><strong>Think about<\/strong>&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>Think about non-verbal communication within conflict situations and the messages you send by:<br><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>Proxemics<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-list\"><li>Getting in someone\u2019s personal space (aggressive?)<\/li><li>Walking away (you don\u2019t care?) <\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>Haptics<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-list\"><li>Avoiding touch, physically recoiling (disgust?)<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>Vocalics<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-list\"><li>Voice tone, volume, pitch, speed (Is there a list of complaints? Is it that bad?)<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>Chronemics<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-list\"><li>The time you take talking. Is it too long? (a lecture?) <\/li><li>Are you giving the other person enough time to speak? <\/li><li>Are you listening? (Do you care about their opinion?)<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>Kinesics<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-list\"><li>How you are presenting yourself: rolling eyes, grimacing, red in the face, gritting teeth (angry?), folding arms (closed?), sighing (bored), turning away (not bothered?), \u2018becoming busy\u2019. <\/li><li>Are you looking at the other person as they speak? (not looking = not interested\/stonewalling?) <\/li><li>Are you sitting or moving around? <\/li><li>Are you looking at your phone, cooking, on your laptop? (not interested in resolving the situation?)<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button has-custom-width wp-block-button__width-100\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-cyan-bluish-gray-background-color has-background\" href=\"https:\/\/raceequalityfoundation.org.uk\/parentalconflict\/6-how-we-communicate\">Return to previous page<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button has-custom-width wp-block-button__width-100\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-vivid-cyan-blue-background-color has-background\" href=\"https:\/\/raceequalityfoundation.org.uk\/parentalconflict\/7-resolving-conflict\">Go to next topic<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Before we understand how co-parents in conflict communicate, we need to appreciate that communication is not just about the words we use. Types of non-verbal conversation Think about&#8230; Think about non-verbal communication within conflict situations and the messages you send by: Proxemics Getting in someone\u2019s personal space (aggressive?) Walking away (you don\u2019t care?) 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